Friday 26 June 2015

When Smart Women Become Foolish By Amara

I AM sure you daily meet very smart women.
Some women are naturally gifted that everyone
in the society respects them. There are girls who
claim to
be so vast in life and who have seen so much
that they now believe nothing can trap them
down. These are the kind of women with great
followership from their fellow women. It is not
just their fellow women honouring them for their
wisdom, men also fall for them.
Some of these women use their wisdom and
knowledge the right way, but a good number of
them make use of their wisdom the foolish way.
The most painful part of this is that these ladies
believe they are smart and streetwise when in
the actual sense of it; they are the most foolish
set of people on earth. I am sure men dread
these set of women and for you not to ruin your
relationship with the man you love, you have to
be careful and know when to run away from
these women. You must grow up to know when
to stop going to them for advice.
As human beings, we always want to confide in
someone; this is good, but I have noticed that
most of the times, those you trust are the one to
put you on the cross and by the time you start
the “had I known”, they are nowhere to be found.
As a woman in a relationship, there are certain
advice you shouldn’t spend a minute thought on.
If you should mistakenly take any of these evil
advice from the so called smart women, you are
doomed for life and you may end up losing that
relationship you want to protect. Like I tell every
girl that comes to me for advice; if half the time
you spend trying to fight your way into a man’s
is spent on your personal development, you
would be the best and most industrious woman
on earth

Now let us look at some of those satanic
advices from your Miss or Mrs Smart.
Beat Up/Kill His Girlfriend
You are a total disgrace to womanhood if you
are one of those women or girls who set out to
fight the girl next door because she is having
some secret deal with the man. If that guy is yet
to get married to you and you have the audacity
to go fight another girl because you believe you
love him, I would advise him to call it a quit with
you because you are going to cause him so
much embarrassment in the future. If you are
already married to him, I just pity your children
and the helpless man. A woman I know very well
lost her four months pregnancy just because she
went to fight her husband’s girlfriend. You are
nothing but a street girl if you are guilty of this. I
don’t care your social status; you are just fit for
the gutters.
Use Sex To Your Advantage
You are not denying him sex because you are
depressed or hurt by the man; you want to use
sex to get money and other material things. I
believe a man should help his woman overcome
depression and should apologize when wrong.
Women are different from men when it comes to
emotional matters. Women want lovemaking
because they are relaxed; men use lovemaking
to relax. If you want that good lovemaking,
please make sure you make her happy.
Back to those selfish ladies. How can any
reasonable woman use sex as a weapon to fight
her man? A lady somewhere in GRA Lagos
denied her husband sex for his refusal to change
her one-year old SUV that was bought straight
from the manufacturing company. After three
months into this, the man met his high school
sweetheart at a gas station. The old flame got
rekindled. The man called to tell me this.
Another woman walked into my office telling my
female employees that the best thing is to
collect money from their husband at the point of
lovemaking. According to her, that’s what she
does and for the man to touch her, he must drop
like N50,000. As we discussed this, a male
customer confirmed her story by telling us about
his cousin whose wife does that to. What a
shame, married prostitutes. Foolish women
thinking they are smart.
No Dinner For Him
No matter the quarrel with my husband, I serve
his meal. Don’t keep him starved because of
marital issues. As long as you both live together,
you will keep agreeing and disagreeing.
I know some men who reject food over marital
issues; this is not right. If you thing you will not
have issues in marriage, you should have waited
for eternity to come before marriage. As long as
we are striving towards perfection, there shall be
issues. You are in it; face it. And thank your God
if your wife is not one of those hardened women
because that’s when she will cook the best meal
for herself and finish it in your presence.
Keep Away From His Relations
I know a woman who, whenever the man is
around, treats his relations like eggs only to put
them through torture and starve them when the
man is out. This makes the man believe his wife
so much loves and cares for her children. You
can choose to go ahead in your iniquity, but
don’t forget; you shall reap whatever you sow.
Treat them right. Even if they hate you, protect
yourself, but don’t hate them back and don’t stop
them from coming to their brother/son’s house.
Have Your Egg In Another Basket
This is deceit from the pit of hell. Young girls
believe they shouldn’t have all eggs in one
basket as the guy may change his mind
tomorrow. If you have doubts about him, please
take a walk. End that relationship with him
before starting another.
Married women on their own part are now into
young boys to the point that these gigolos are no
longer available for the young girls. They buy
houses and cars for the lazy young men who
service them in oga’s absence. A Nigerian
senator once locked up her Ghanaian steward
because the guy got tired of servicing her. She
employed him as a steward, but more for her
bed. A day came that the boy refused to go on
with this life; madam got him locked up by the
police. It took the intervention of a friend to get
this boy out after he threatened to expose
madam senator.
The other shameful one is their involvement in
lesbianism. Our young girls now live in porch
houses and use top range rides with shops on
high streets, courtesy, big mummy. The end of
all these is pain. It is more honourable ending a
relationship than being unfaithful in it. And you
know the funny thing? They hate ladies who
refuse to join their lesbian clique.
Just A Visit To A Spiritualist
There is no gift of the devil without tears and
expiry date. Every gift of God makes rich and
adds no sorrow. Your regular visit to the baba” is
leading you to one destination-regret. The sad
thing is that most babalawos (witch
doctors) have turned to pastors and are making
good living from our society. Be careful with the
pastors we have around as majority of them are
from the devil himself. They will give you the
prophecy you want to hear and are most times
exact. The truth is that they work with the spirit
of the dead-Necromancy and this is what tells
them everything they need to know about you.
They have no solution to your problem. Only a
few are still in tune with the Trinity.
My dear, there is nothing as beautiful as you
being close to God and have Him direct you
Himself. I personally don’t consult anyone and it
would help you if you develop a personal
relationship with God thereby putting an end to
your regular visits to the evil prophets in town
who depend on people like you for their upkeep.

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