Tuesday 30 June 2015

Lagos Food Vendor Kills Man Over N50 Bread

A 28-year-old man, Ajayi Peters, aka
Ajana, has been stabbed to death in
the Yaba area of Lagos State after a
disagreement over N50 loaf of bread.

PUNCH Metro learnt from residents
that Peters was killed by a bread
vendor, identified simply as Yinka,
aka Buredi.
Information gathered that
Peters had tried to prevail on Yinka
after he refused to sell a loaf to one
of his customers on credit.
It was learnt that there was an
argument between the men and in
the ensuing scuffle, yinka grabbed
a knife and stabbed the deceased
in the head.
He was said to have died in a
private hospital.
The incident happened at a
roundabout on Church Street,
Makoko, Yaba, where Yinka sold
bread on a slab.
A resident, who spoke on condition
of anonymity, told PUNCH Metro
the fight began around 11pm on
Tuesday.

He said, “The incident happened on
Tuesday, June 16, around 11pm.
The man that died was collecting
fees from traders. He and Buredi
(Yinka) had been having issues
because Ajana (Peters) and some
members of his group sometimes
threw away his goods whenever
they had problems with him.
“But on that day, a man had
approached him to buy N50 loaf of
bread on credit. The bread seller
started shouting at the customer
that he should not come near his
bread because he was not ready to
sell on credit.
“At a point, Buredi said, ‘No
powerful man on this street can
take the loaf from me and give
you.’”
It was learnt that the deceased, who
felt insulted by the veiled reference
to him, asked the suspect to give
the customer the loaf.
This was said to have aggravated
the case as both men took turns to
insult each other.
Another resident, who did not
identify himself, said Peters pushed
the suspect.
“The bread seller fell to the ground.
In anger, he picked a knife and
stabbed Ajana in the head. He
started bleeding.

“But not realising the seriousness
of the injuries, Ajana began to look
for a weapon with which to attack
back,” the resident added.
It was learnt that the suspect fled
the scene, while Peters walked
down to a private hospital on the
street.
PUNCH Metro was told that a
doctor attended to him and stitched
the wound.
A woman, who was reportedly close
to the victim, said, “But the injury
was deeper than we thought. He
died from the injuries around
4am.”

The bread vendor, who was unaware of
the development, was tricked by
some people in the community to
come for a truce meeting.

A resident, Solomon Ojo, said, “The
bread seller did not know Ajana
had died. He thought he was only
injured and had treated himself.
“When he was called in the
morning for a truce meeting, he
was surrounded by some youths in
the area who wanted to kill him.
But some community leaders
prevailed on them to hand him
over to the police.”

The suspect was said to have been
arrested by policemen from the
Adekunle division, while the corpse
of the deceased was deposited in a
mortuary.

A source in the area told PUNCH
Metro the suspect did not mean to
kill the deceased.
He said the bread vendor had
always been harassed by hoodlums
in the community, adding that it
was unfortunate Peters died from
the attack.

He said, “The problem started
during the elections when they
discovered he was supporting a
rival political party. They harassed
him and damaged his goods at that
time.

“Whenever they saw him plying his
trade, they harassed him. What
happened that day was just
unfortunate. The man only acted in
self defence.”

The Police Public Relations Officer,
Kenneth Nwosu, confirmed the
incident.
He said the matter had been
transferred to the State Department
of Criminal Investigation for
further investigation.

Jega Vacates Office Today, June 30th

The Chairman of the Independent
National Electoral Commission
(INEC), Attahiru Jega is set to vacate
his office today, June 30, 2015.
He will leave office along with six
National Commissioners who were
appointed at the same time by
Jonathan.

They are:
Col. M.K. Hammanga (rtd),
Adamawa State (North East); Dr
Ishmael Jikiri Igbani, Rivers State
(South South); Prof. Lai Olurode
Osun State (South West); Dame
Gladys Nne Nwafor, Abia State
(South East); Mrs Thelma Amata
Iremiren, Delta State (South South);
and Engr. Dr. Nuru Yakubu, Yobe
State (North East).

Jega, who has received worldwide
accolade for the successful conduct
of Nigeria’s 2015 general elections,
earlier stated that he won’t be
seeking a tenure elongation.

CBN Extends BVN Registration To October 31st

Central Bank of Nigeria has
extended the deadline for the Bank
Verification Number, BVN,
registration to October 31st .

The
Apex bank had earlier fixed today
June 30th as the deadline for the
registration.

Hopefully more people would
have completed their registration
before the new deadline elapses

6 Habits That Will Keep You Poor For The Rest Of Your Life

You were born poor, but if you die
poor you have yourself to blame.
Before you finish reading this
article, at least 8 out of 10 people
will have done something that
contributes to their future poverty.
Only 2 out of 10 will have done
what is required to remain
prosperous in the future. The
question you need to ask yourself
today is, “I’m I among the lucky 2
or the not-so-lucky 8?”
Here are 6 habits that could easily
draw your route-map to a life of
perpetual poverty.

1.You focus on linear income instead
of passive income
Most people focus on linear income
in the name of salary, allowances
and one-off payments. Wise men
on the other hand focus on passive
income in the name of royalties,
interest rates, value addition and
profit.
Relying on linear income is similar
to using buckets to fetch water
from the river. With time, you’ll get
too old and too tired to transport
them to and fro and that means
you’ll have to starve for as long as
you don’t go to the river.
Relying on passive income on the
other hand is similar to building a
pipeline. It may require a lot of
work at the beginning but with
time, you’ll no longer have to go to
the river to get water – the river
will come to you and you’ll not
starve.
This is the most fundamental
principal of wealth creation that
most (including you) are oblivious
about.

2.You’re still waiting to start your
journey of success
Everyone wants to succeed but very
few people are willing to step into
the cold waters. Do you see the
problem here? In the history of the
world, no marathon race has ever
been won (or even finished) by
someone who never left the starting
line.
As you’re stuck saying that you
have no enough capital to start,
someone else is busy making good
use of whatever little they have.
As you’re busy lamenting that there
are no business ideas, someone else
is busy sharpening his innovation
claws.
When you’re busy complaining
about a problem in your society,
someone else is busy thinking how
to start a business that solves that
problem.
Continue waiting at the starting
line and poverty will soon find you
there to keep you company.

3.When you earn more you spend
more
Consistently raising your
expenditure is a good way to
accumulate debt and to remain
stuck in the echelons of poverty. To
stay out of bad debt, you will either
need to find a way to earn more or
spend less. The first and best option
is to find ways to earn more and
keep your expenditure constant.
As you know this can only be done
by creating multiple streams of
income and lot’s of thinking is
necessary in that case.
The second option is to simply cut
on unnecessary expenses. The
money that is saved from these
budget cuts could be used for
embarking on future investment
programs.

4.You complain instead of committing
“Life is too expensive”; “It’s
hopeless; I’ll never get out of debt”;
“I don’t earn enough money.” Have
you ever uttered any of these
statements before, or perhaps all of
them? Old habits die hard;
however, as long as you do nothing
to change; then you and your
coming generation have a direct
ticket to the land of poverty.
Stop complaining and making lame
excuses. Instead, take responsibility
for your non-productive habits and
focus on changing them – then do
it!

5.You live for today, hoping tomorrow
will care about its worries
In the 1950s a scientist from
Harvard University studied the
reasons for upward socio-economic
mobility. He wanted to know how
comes some generations get
wealthier while others get poorer.
All his research brought him to a
single factor that he concluded was
more accurate than any other thing
in predicting success – he called it
“The Time Pespective”.
Time perspective is basically how
far you project into the future
when you make a decision today.
An example of a long-term
perspective is when a wise family
man buys land or insurance for
their child, even though he or she
will not need it for the next
eighteen years. This is a long-term
approach that involves sacrificing
in the short term to assure better
outcomes in the long-term.
Most people remain poor because
their “time perspective” is focused
on short-term goals such as meeting
basic lifestyle needs, buying luxury
items, paying rent etc…are you one
of them?

6.You just don’t get it!
The problem is that you keep
learning but you don’t get it. You’re
educated but you’ve never
internalized what your teachers
told you. You have knowledge but
you don’t want to think too hard
how to use it. You’re still stuck at
the starting line all along because
you don’t want to start small and
grow bit by bit from there. You’re
still stuck in the lottery mentality
hoping that one day you’ll wake up
and voila! discover “the newest,
incredibly easiest way to get
wealth.”
Most people remain poor, not
because they don’t have the
knowledge. Not because they don’t
read Kuza Biashara and other
business-related articles. But
because they don’t LEARN BY
DOING. They just don’t get it!
Final word
Being wealthy and prosperous
requires more than just physical
ownership. It is a state of
happiness, well-being while
wishing the same for others. So
while you are working to escape
from poverty, remember to be
happy along the way!

Mavin Wonder Kid Korede Bello Performs #Godwin In Church Again, Receives Prayer From Pastor

Mavin act, Korede Bello has once again performed at another Church service despite the view of some fans that a secular musician should not be allowed to mount a pulpit and sing in the church. He performed last weekend at Embrace International Assembly in Lagos. Korede first appearance as a performing act in a Church was at HICC (Harvesters International Christian Centre) where he sang his smash hitGodwin. When he was criticized for his actions, the Young singer said that he was going to perform in a church again. In an earlier interview with NET, he said; “If you are the pastor of a church and you invite me to perform the song, Yes I will perform the song again. “It’s God’s song and whatever is happening now is predetermined, people are talking about God that’s all that matters”. “From the inception of Godwin, I knew that it wasn’t my song, I knew that anything that’s for God has the potential of growing bigger than you imagine. It’s not quite a gospel song, it’s an inspirational song, what I mean by it’s for God is the fact that it’s dedicated to God. I don’t see it as my song, I see it as people’s song and I see it as a song for God.” 


See this Sexy Lady who claims sh-e Looks Like Tiwa Savage



H-er name is Juliet Kaycee Achebe. Sh-e’s cute but does sh-e look like Tiwa Savage?
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P-Square’s Older Brother Jude Okoye Flaunts N3.7m Wristwatch On Instagram


Jude Okoye, manager and older brother to the Psquare duo recently took to his Instagram ACCOUNT to show off his LUXURIOUS wristwatch valued at N3.7million ($19K).
The boss of North Side Inc took to his Instagram account on Saturday, June 27, 2015 to display the wristwatch known as Hublot Big Bang Tuiga with diamond studs.
Referred to as one of the biggest artiste manager in Nigeria at the moment, Jude made his name, fame and fortune MANAGING his younger brothers to success.
It should be noted that rising singer, Cynthia Morgan is signed on Jude’s self owned record label, North Side Entertainment.

Davido In NDLEA Trouble Over “Fans Mi” Video Featuring Meek Mill

We are investigating him, says AGENCY Multiple award winner and INTERNATIONAL act, Davido, is in trouble with the National Drug Law Enforcement Agency over his new song/video titled ‘Fans mi.’ NDLEA is currentlyinvestigating Davido (real name DavidAdeleke) for showcasing hard drugs in the video FEATURING Maybach Group artist,Meek Mill. In the video, which has gone viral since it was released earlier this month, Davido is seen discussing with an unidentified man as they haggle over a briefcase of dollars and a bag full of parcels of hard drugs. There are also lewd scenes in the video. The song is supposed to promote the Omo Baba Olowo crooner’s gratitude and appreciation to his fans for their love and support towards his CAREER over the years. However, the singer was busy singing about his enemies and MONEY, showcasing hard drugs, Unclothedness and guns in the video. Some fans have expressed dissatisfaction over the song/video, claiming the talented singer should have done BETTER by showing pictures of his fans, his past shows and encounters with fans, rather than the display of hard drugs, Unclothedness and guns. In an emailed comment to Sunday Telegraph, NDLEA’s Head of Public Affairs, Mr. Mitchell Ofoyeju, said, “The AGENCY considers the musical video ‘Fans Mi’ inappropriate and indecent. It has the tendency to negatively influence and induce drug use and trafficking. Besides, it is counter-productive on the campaign against drug production, trafficking and abuse. The agency is INVESTIGATING the matter and will take necessary action.” Also speaking, popular music video critics, Mrs. Nuella O’Peters, said, “It’s really outrageous seeing a brand ambassador and a mentor to millions of African youths indulging in such acts. He even went as far as using the substance for cooking in the video. Can you imagine! It’s uncalled for. I do hope the NIGERIA Broadcasting Corporation will do something about the video.” Davido is a song writer, performer and a recording artiste from Nigeria. He recently postponed the release of his highly anticipated album on his birthday. 

Manchester-united-captain-wayne-rooney-shares-new-family-photo

Wayne Rooney is enjoying some family time with his family and also shares a selfie on Instagram…….
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With the season some few weeks ago, Manchester United captain Wayne Rooney is enjoying the company of his two sons and wife.
The England international took to his Instagram account to share a selfie with his family.
In the photo, Rooney’s sons Klay and Kai with his wife Coleen,  all stuck their tongues out while the Manchester United striker was all smiles.
Rooney met his wife, Coleen Rooney while both were at secondary school. They married on 12 June 2008 after six years of dating and have two sons Kai born 2009 and Klay born 2013.
The 29-year-old is looking forward to start the new season with Manchester United and will be hoping that they challenge for the English Premier League title after two underwhelming season.
See more photos below:
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Arsenal Sign Cech From Chelsea


The Czech goalkeeper has completed his move to north London despite Jose Mourinho being keen for him to stay, ending his 11-year association with the PREMIER League champions.
Arsenal have completed the signing of goalkeeper Petr Cech from London rivals Chelsea on a long-term CONTRACT for an undisclosed fee.
The 33-year-old completed his medical on Friday and has now signed a £100,000-a-week CONTRACT (€140,000), immediately making him one of the club’s highest earners alongside Mesut Ozil and Alexis Sanchez.
The £11 million (€15.5m) capture of Cech represents Arsenal’s first signing of the summer, though Chelsea boss Jose Mourinho had been hugely reluctant to allow the veteran goalkeeper to JOIN a rival.
Mourinho was keen to retain Cech as backup to Thibaut Courtois, but OWNER Roman Abramovich wanted to show respect for the Czech’s 11 years of distinguished service so ceded to his wishes for first-team football as well as his desire to keep his young family in London.
Cech has played a key role in the most SUCCESSFUL era of the Blues’ history, winning four Premier League titles, the Champions League, Europa League, FA Cup and League Cup during his time at Stamford Bridge.
Despite being reduced to a bit-part role last season, Cech still showed his goalkeeping prowess by recording five clean sheets in his seven PREMIER League appearances.
His departure leaves Mourinho in need of a new shot-stopper to provide cover for Courtois, and the Blues have already identified Stoke City’s Asmir Begovic as a primary target for the role.
Arsenal, meanwhile, are expected to sell Fenerbahce target David Ospina to make room for Cech, with Wojciech Szczesny to be his understudy, and the Czech could yet be followed to the Emirates Stadium by Chelsea goalkeeping coach Christophe Lollichon.

20 Things Your Boyfriend Will Never Admit


Those boyfriends of us are darlings, but no
angels. There are a few things that they keep
hidden from us. Here are the 21 things your
boyfriend will never admit.
1. I will NEVER say you became fat, even it’s
true
2. And I think some of the clothes you wear
aren’t nice
3. I often don’t know what you’re talking about,
but I just nod yes
4. And sometimes it’s really annoying to hold
your hand
5. I will never tell you what I really think about
your family
6. I find your best friend / sister / neighbour / …
quite attractive
7. Sometimes I dare to look at pretty women
8. And yes, sometimes I fantasize about
someone else
9. I don’t say no to sex, even though I didn’t
really want
10. And no, I really don’t want to talk after sex
11. Yes, sometimes I will lie to you about your
cooking
12. But I also don’t have an idea of ​​what I’m
doing
13. Sometimes I like to watch a chick flick
14. But I also want to do something alone
15. Sometimes I text with a girlfriend, without
telling it to you
16. And yes, sometimes I tell things about you to
them
17. But I hate it when you are too well with a
man
18. Sometimes I freak out if you don’t
immediately respond to my text
19. And yes, I’m afraid you’re going to dump me
20. Because: I see you becoming sweeter and
sweeter and sweeter and sweeter and sweeter…

Friday 26 June 2015

When Smart Women Become Foolish By Amara

I AM sure you daily meet very smart women.
Some women are naturally gifted that everyone
in the society respects them. There are girls who
claim to
be so vast in life and who have seen so much
that they now believe nothing can trap them
down. These are the kind of women with great
followership from their fellow women. It is not
just their fellow women honouring them for their
wisdom, men also fall for them.
Some of these women use their wisdom and
knowledge the right way, but a good number of
them make use of their wisdom the foolish way.
The most painful part of this is that these ladies
believe they are smart and streetwise when in
the actual sense of it; they are the most foolish
set of people on earth. I am sure men dread
these set of women and for you not to ruin your
relationship with the man you love, you have to
be careful and know when to run away from
these women. You must grow up to know when
to stop going to them for advice.
As human beings, we always want to confide in
someone; this is good, but I have noticed that
most of the times, those you trust are the one to
put you on the cross and by the time you start
the “had I known”, they are nowhere to be found.
As a woman in a relationship, there are certain
advice you shouldn’t spend a minute thought on.
If you should mistakenly take any of these evil
advice from the so called smart women, you are
doomed for life and you may end up losing that
relationship you want to protect. Like I tell every
girl that comes to me for advice; if half the time
you spend trying to fight your way into a man’s
is spent on your personal development, you
would be the best and most industrious woman
on earth

Now let us look at some of those satanic
advices from your Miss or Mrs Smart.
Beat Up/Kill His Girlfriend
You are a total disgrace to womanhood if you
are one of those women or girls who set out to
fight the girl next door because she is having
some secret deal with the man. If that guy is yet
to get married to you and you have the audacity
to go fight another girl because you believe you
love him, I would advise him to call it a quit with
you because you are going to cause him so
much embarrassment in the future. If you are
already married to him, I just pity your children
and the helpless man. A woman I know very well
lost her four months pregnancy just because she
went to fight her husband’s girlfriend. You are
nothing but a street girl if you are guilty of this. I
don’t care your social status; you are just fit for
the gutters.
Use Sex To Your Advantage
You are not denying him sex because you are
depressed or hurt by the man; you want to use
sex to get money and other material things. I
believe a man should help his woman overcome
depression and should apologize when wrong.
Women are different from men when it comes to
emotional matters. Women want lovemaking
because they are relaxed; men use lovemaking
to relax. If you want that good lovemaking,
please make sure you make her happy.
Back to those selfish ladies. How can any
reasonable woman use sex as a weapon to fight
her man? A lady somewhere in GRA Lagos
denied her husband sex for his refusal to change
her one-year old SUV that was bought straight
from the manufacturing company. After three
months into this, the man met his high school
sweetheart at a gas station. The old flame got
rekindled. The man called to tell me this.
Another woman walked into my office telling my
female employees that the best thing is to
collect money from their husband at the point of
lovemaking. According to her, that’s what she
does and for the man to touch her, he must drop
like N50,000. As we discussed this, a male
customer confirmed her story by telling us about
his cousin whose wife does that to. What a
shame, married prostitutes. Foolish women
thinking they are smart.
No Dinner For Him
No matter the quarrel with my husband, I serve
his meal. Don’t keep him starved because of
marital issues. As long as you both live together,
you will keep agreeing and disagreeing.
I know some men who reject food over marital
issues; this is not right. If you thing you will not
have issues in marriage, you should have waited
for eternity to come before marriage. As long as
we are striving towards perfection, there shall be
issues. You are in it; face it. And thank your God
if your wife is not one of those hardened women
because that’s when she will cook the best meal
for herself and finish it in your presence.
Keep Away From His Relations
I know a woman who, whenever the man is
around, treats his relations like eggs only to put
them through torture and starve them when the
man is out. This makes the man believe his wife
so much loves and cares for her children. You
can choose to go ahead in your iniquity, but
don’t forget; you shall reap whatever you sow.
Treat them right. Even if they hate you, protect
yourself, but don’t hate them back and don’t stop
them from coming to their brother/son’s house.
Have Your Egg In Another Basket
This is deceit from the pit of hell. Young girls
believe they shouldn’t have all eggs in one
basket as the guy may change his mind
tomorrow. If you have doubts about him, please
take a walk. End that relationship with him
before starting another.
Married women on their own part are now into
young boys to the point that these gigolos are no
longer available for the young girls. They buy
houses and cars for the lazy young men who
service them in oga’s absence. A Nigerian
senator once locked up her Ghanaian steward
because the guy got tired of servicing her. She
employed him as a steward, but more for her
bed. A day came that the boy refused to go on
with this life; madam got him locked up by the
police. It took the intervention of a friend to get
this boy out after he threatened to expose
madam senator.
The other shameful one is their involvement in
lesbianism. Our young girls now live in porch
houses and use top range rides with shops on
high streets, courtesy, big mummy. The end of
all these is pain. It is more honourable ending a
relationship than being unfaithful in it. And you
know the funny thing? They hate ladies who
refuse to join their lesbian clique.
Just A Visit To A Spiritualist
There is no gift of the devil without tears and
expiry date. Every gift of God makes rich and
adds no sorrow. Your regular visit to the baba” is
leading you to one destination-regret. The sad
thing is that most babalawos (witch
doctors) have turned to pastors and are making
good living from our society. Be careful with the
pastors we have around as majority of them are
from the devil himself. They will give you the
prophecy you want to hear and are most times
exact. The truth is that they work with the spirit
of the dead-Necromancy and this is what tells
them everything they need to know about you.
They have no solution to your problem. Only a
few are still in tune with the Trinity.
My dear, there is nothing as beautiful as you
being close to God and have Him direct you
Himself. I personally don’t consult anyone and it
would help you if you develop a personal
relationship with God thereby putting an end to
your regular visits to the evil prophets in town
who depend on people like you for their upkeep.

Australia Plans Education Exhibition In Lagos

IN a sign of confidence in the Nigerian economy,
Australia’s Trade and Investment agency,
Austrade, will hold its first ever Australi-
focussed education exhibition later this year in
Lagos.
Speaking with The Guardian during a recent visit
to Nigeria on the reason for the exhibition,
Australia’s Senior Trade Commissioner, John
Madew, said: “Australia has a strong track record
of innovation and success. It is the home to
some of the world’s leading educational
institutions, researchers and academics,
including 15 Nobel Prize winners.
“Australia also has four of the ten most liveable
cities in the world. Why won’t you want to study
with some of the best minds in some of the
safest and most liveable cities in the world?”
The inaugural Future Unlimited West Africa
Education Exhibition 2015 will provide
prospective Nigerian undergraduate and
postgraduate students an excellent opportunity
to discuss study plans directly with qualified
representatives from up to 15 Australian
education institutions.

He said that a number of Nigerian alumni of
Australian universities would also be on hand to
speak to interested students and parents about
their personal experiences of studying in
Australia.
According to him, the exhibition will hold on
September 25 and 26 at the Eko Hotel, Victoria
Island and Sheraton Hotel, Ikeja, in Lagos.
Australian Trade Commissioner for West Africa,
Gordon Chakaodza added, “The exhibition will be
an excellent opportunity to learn about the
benefits of studying in Australia, including
obtaining first-hand information about current
student visa regulations.”

UN At 70: Ki Moon Lists Achievements, Bemoans Extremism

TO mark 70 years of the United Nations (UN)
Charter, which was drafted on June 26, 1945, the
Secretary General of the organisation, Ban Ki
Moon, has extolled the contribution of the body
to global peace, despite the recent gloom
brought about by extremism.
Ki Moon, who himself was a beneficiary of UN
gestures during the Korean War, said ever since
then, the body had occupied a special place in
his life.
“I was six years old when the Korean War broke
out. I have memories of my village in flames as
my family sought refuge in nearby mountains.
But another sight is even more lasting: the UN
flag. We were saved from hunger by UN food
relief operations; we received textbooks from the
United Nations Educational, Scientific and
Cultural Organisation (UNESCO); and when we
wondered whether the outside world cared about
our suffering, the troops of many nations
sacrificed their lives to restore security and
peace,” he said.

As the world marked the 70th anniversary of the
adoption of the Organisation’s founding Charter
yesterday, Ki Moon expressed hope that the
human race would come together with greater
determination to work for a safer and more
sustainable future.
According to him, the UN is proud to have
worked with many partners to dismantle
colonialism, triumph over apartheid, keep the
peace in troubled places and articulate a body of
treaties and law to safeguard human rights.
He added: “Every day, the United Nations feeds
the hungry, shelters refugees and vaccinates
children against polio and other deadly diseases.
Our relief workers brave remote and dangerous
environments to deliver humanitarian assistance,
and our mediators strive to find common ground
between warring parties and peaceful solutions
to grievances and disputes. The United Nations
was founded to prevent another World War, and
it has succeeded in that corer mission; despite
grave setbacks, the past seven decades would
surely have been even bloodier without the
United Nations.
“Yet we are keenly aware that today’s landscape
is scarred by conflict, exploitation and despair.
At least 59.5 million people have fled their
homes – more refugees, displaced persons and
asylum seekers than at any time since the end of
the Second World War. Violence against women
blights all societies. At a time of pressing human
needs, huge amounts of money continue to be
squandered on nuclear weapons and other
destabilising military arsenals. The consequences
of climate change are ever more apparent—and
have only just begun. And although the world
said “never again” after the Holocaust, and again
after genocides in Rwanda and Srebrenica, we
continue to witness atrocious crimes by violent
extremists and others.”
Pointing the world to goals that must be
achieved, the UN Secretary General said the goal
of the body would be transformation.
“We are the first generation that can erase
poverty from the earth – and the last that can
act to avoid the worst impacts of a warming
world.
“As the distinctions between the national and the
international continue to fall away, challenges
faced by one become challenges faced by all,
sometimes gradually but often suddenly. With our
fates ever more entwined, our future must be
one of ever deeper cooperation – nations united
by a spirit of global citizenship that lives up to
the promise of the Organisation’s name,” he
admonished.

‘Never Knew Such Men Existed Till I Had A Personal Experience With My Husband’

IN this our present generation, I never believed
there would be any man who would possess
such magnanimity. With joy in my heart, though
still very much guilty of what I did, I share this
true and touching story of mine.
I was 21 years of age when I gained admission
into the university in the Western region of
Nigeria. Before then was when I met this man I
am married to now. He has, if not all, the best
quality any good man would have: God- fearing,
intelligent, handsome to mention but a few. Even
with the little he had he made sure he shared
them with me. After he graduated and served, he
got a job and further trained me in the university.
He proposed to me in my second year and we
finally got married in my final year in school.
The devil played his part during this period.
There was this guy I was seeing. At first, I only
took him as a friend. Along the line, he said he
wouldn’t mind being a fling and the result was
that I got pregnant for this guy even though I just
got married. I was so confused that I didn’t know
what to do, and I couldn’t tell anybody, even my
friend, because I could not just trust anybody.
And terminating it would not be an option. I had
to tell my husband I was pregnant for him even
though I knew I was committing a very big sin.
He believed me without any doubt when I told
him I was pregnant. I finally gave birth to a baby
boy, but the amazing thing was that the new
born baby never had any resemblance to neither
my husband nor I. Although no eyebrow was
raised, he accepted it and we lived happily. Deep
down in my heart, I was really dying of
conscience, because each time I looked at my
child’s face, I saw the look of the other man.
I gave birth to another son. Although he loved
him, he seemed to love the first son more. Each
time I looked at him, I wondered why he loved
me so much. So one day, I decided to take the
bold step by letting the cat out the bag because
I couldn’t keep on living in lies with a man that
loves me so much. I know I had betrayed his
love and trust for me, but I had to open up to
him because I really love him so much. I didn’t
really know what came into me. I begged God
for forgiveness and prayed God should guide my
husband s decision while I open up to him.

On this fateful day, he got back from work. When
he retired to the bed, I approached him. Firstly, I
begged him to forgive me for what I would tell
him. He said God forgives our sins, that why
won’t he forgive me. I opened up but before I
could finish, he halted me and told me he had
known all this while but kept quiet, that though
he expected me to have told him, he knew it
would be difficult. That he knew I had made a
mistake but watched me all this while and see
how I would make up for it. I was dumfounded
and tears came out of my eyes. There and then I
pondered: is there a man really with this kind of
heart ?